How do you get yourself to do things you don’t feel like doing? You know what those things are and I bet each and every one of you have said at one time or another; “tomorrow I am going to ___________ in order to get more listings or make more sales”. Unfortunately, just like New Year’s resolutions, the motivation passes long before the task has been completed. I have heard it said that motivation is just like bathing, you need it every day. We can get motivated in a variety of ways. A coach can motivate us, real estate managers can motivate us, our husband, wife, or significant other can motivate us, even a book or quote can motivate us to get going in the right direction. The challenge we encounter is that we can’t always have those outside motivators with us on a daily, minute by minute basis or when we need them the most! So what then?
We need to learn how to motivate ourselves.
Being able to self-motivate keeps successful agents moving in the right direction. It is my opinion, the key to being able to motivate oneself, starts first with understanding what motivation means. I found a definition of motivation online that I think provides a clue on why successful agents are able to motivate themselves daily. Motivation is defined as; “the reason or reasons one has for acting or behaving in a particular way”. I believe successful agents have the reason or reasons they will succeed ingrained into their being. Nothing will stand in their way and that includes doing the things that most agents don’t want to do. Their reasons for wanting to be successful are immensely more powerful than their fear of what needs to be done to reach their goals. Are your reason or reasons that powerful?
Reexamine or identify why you want to be successful and then ask yourself, would it be ok if I failed. If the answer is yes, then you are trying to build a real estate career for the wrong reasons. It is when failure is not an option that self-motivation will be the driving force for success!